Pinkas guides

Useful guides for the family stories you want to keep.

One place for the tree, the stories, the recipes, the yahrtzeits, and the voices telling it all. So what your family knows does not leave with the ones who know it.

family memory

What is a pinkas? A family record made to keep growing

Learn what a pinkas is, why Jewish communities kept one, and how a modern family pinkas holds stories, dates, voices, and photographs together.

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dates

How yahrzeit dates work: Hebrew dates, civil dates, and family practice

A practical guide to keeping yahrzeit dates with both calendars, confirming the original date, and recording a family’s observance without replacing rabbinic guidance.

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dates

Hebrew birthdays explained: why the civil date changes

Understand how a Hebrew birthday relates to the civil calendar, what to record, and how to make family reminders dependable.

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family memory

Questions to ask grandparents before the stories are lost

A thoughtful way to prepare a family interview, ask better questions, and preserve the voice and context behind a grandparent’s memories.

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gatherings

Planning a family Shabbaton without losing the family part

A simple framework for planning a family Shabbaton: purpose, invitations, meals, accessibility, shared memories, and follow-up.

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recipes

Preserving family recipes: from index cards to a usable cookbook

How to preserve family recipes with the maker’s name, approximate measures, photographs, stories, and a version people can actually cook.

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