Holocaust Family Testimony Conversation Guide
A consent-led preparation worksheet for families, with links to specialist oral-history guidance.
By Pinkas · Updated September 28, 2026
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Before asking
- Ask whether the person wants to record anything at all. Silence is an acceptable choice.
- Agree on topics they welcome and topics they do not want to discuss.
- Agree who may access the recording and whether any part must stay private.
- Choose a comfortable place, a short first session, and an easy way to stop.
- Ask whether an existing testimony should be preserved instead of recording another.
- Read the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum's oral-history guidance before preparing a longer interview.
Invitations, never demands
- What would you like younger relatives to know about life before the war?
- Is there a person, place or object you would like us to remember?
- Would you like to talk about rebuilding life afterward?
- Is there anything you would prefer we not ask?
- Would you like to pause, end, or change the subject?
- May we review the recording together and record your access preferences?
Preserve responsibly
- Keep the original recording unchanged; save transcripts as separate files.
- Record the interview date, language, interviewer, permission and any restrictions.
- Distinguish a person's recollection from later annotations or outside research.
- Do not pressure someone for graphic details or treat an interview as therapy.
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