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Family Relationship Calculator

Find a relationship from the number of parent-child steps between two people and a shared ancestor.

No account needed. These entries are calculated in your browser tab and are not sent to Pinkas or saved automatically.

Your result will appear here. You can download it without registering.

How to use this tool

Count one step for a parent, two for a grandparent, and three for a great-grandparent. Use the nearest shared ancestor for the path you are describing. Multiple shared ancestors can produce more than one relationship.

A practical example

If each person is three generations below the shared ancestor, they are second cousins. If one is three steps down and the other four, they are second cousins once removed.

Common questions

What does removed mean?

It is the difference between the two generation counts. Cousin degree is one less than the smaller count.

Does this establish biological kinship?

No. It labels a supplied family-tree path. Adoption, step relationships, half relationships, and uncertain parentage need their own context.

Keep the next step small

Take the result to one relative, check one source, or organize one small collection.

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Synagogues, genealogy groups, and community websites can embed the free tool. Paste this code into a page that allows iframes. Keep the attribution visible; adjust the height to suit your page. Visitors can use it without registering.

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