Jewish family memory
Questions to ask grandparents
The best family interview starts with a small, concrete memory and leaves room for the storyteller to choose the direction. Ask one question, listen, and follow up before moving to the next topic.
By Pinkas · Updated September 28, 2026
A practical first step
Begin with a familiar topic, agree on a comfortable session length, and leave room for follow-up. Pinkas's guided interview content is available inside the private product.
An example to follow
A focused session about everyday home life can connect recipes, languages, relatives, and holiday customs. Save the speaker's own words before summarizing.
Keep the record useful for the next relative
Save the original item or recording, the source of each claim, and the date you added the note. Label estimates and disputed details. Decide who should have access before inviting other people to help.